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Here are some (almost) fool-proof ways to get your answer about that guy you've been crushing on and find out if he wants you back:

Go Right Ahead and Ask Him

If you're a brave and confident gal, this is a simple problem to solve. All you have to do is get him alone, make him laugh and get him comfortable with you if you aren't close friends and/or haven't known each other long.

When the timing is right, make your move and drop the question on him.

If you are a little more shy or want to be more subtle but still want your answer, you can always talk to someone else…

Say The Right Words to The Right Person

If you pick the right person for this, it can work wonders. Out of all his buddies, (not the casual friends, but the closer friends who have known him a long time), pick the one you are most comfortable with who is not a loud-mouth or always acting out for attention.

Once you choose the right guy, pick the right time and have a little chat with him. Start with neutral topics and just have a good conversation with the guy. When your instinct tells you it's the right time, mention something about your crush. You can ask a question about your possible future boyfriend, or be more blunt and tell his friend how adorable you think he is. Chances are, you will get either an immediate answer from his buddy if it's a mutual thing with your crush; or, you might get an answer via positive reaction if/when his friend tells him what you said.

Pay Attention

You can get information without being too obvious just by being connected to him via Facebook or another social networking site. If you can be subtle about it, you can learn a lot about him just by observing his behavior with other people (particularly other females).

Then you can compare that behavior with how he acts around you, which can be very interesting.

The Jealousy Test

This test has been used by both women and men forever, but I'm convinced women invented it. All you have to do is accept a date with another guy or have a male friend fill in as a faux date or boyfriend. Just make sure your male friend doesn't like you and you guys are strictly platonic. It's even better to have a gay guy friend do this. Or, you can choose to not even actually “use” another guy and just talk to your crush about one instead.

How he reacts is very important and can sum up the question for you. Don't be too upset if he doesn't show jealousy, as he might just be really good at hiding his emotions.

The Lipgloss Test

The next time you two hang out or find yourselves working on something together, pick a time when things slow down a bit. Get out your favorite lipgloss and apply it slowly as you pretend to be concentrating on something else. If he watches you do this, try to get his reaction out of the corner of your eyes or look up at him.

Make sure you don't pick a brightly-colored gloss. It's better if it's a plumping gloss that clear or a moisturizer; the most important thing is that it's a wand applicator and a product you can explain away as a treatment you apply all the time. You never want to appear as though you're trying too hard.

The Perfume Test

This test is great because it creates a scent memory of you in his mind, and it also initiates physical contact. Put a somewhat-heavy amount of a light perfume on both your wrists. Sniff them when he's around, pretending like you're pondering as you smell your skin.

Ask him if he likes the perfume by offering him your wrist. If it's a good scent and a good vibe, you should get a reaction that will make you happy. Then, you wait for the next time the two of you are together. Wear the perfume again, this time on your neck as well and wherever else you apply it. If he smells you and says something about the perfume, remembering it, then congrats! You have successfully created a scent memory for him, and chances are high that he digs you.

You'll know the perfect perfume to use if it's light enough to not make him faint but still very sexy.

Put Your Friends on High-Alert

Make sure your friends know that you have a huge crush on the guy, and put them alert by asking them to keep their eyes and ears open.

They'll be able to fill you in on anything they see or hear that you may miss, such as if he's seeing anyone, ex-girlfriend info, etc. As an added bonus, if your girlfriends are particularly social, chances are they'll make friends with your crush's friends. This means group hangouts and many golden opportunities for you.

Ooooh…this is a tough one girls. The dreaded situation that would feel like utter death for most of us.

I know this sucks and hurts like hell, to be here in this predicament with your man, but there are things you can do and try in order to (hopefully) get back what you had and lost.

Self-Pity and Self-Hatred Will Only Make Things Worse

Of course it's very normal and understandable to be feeling this way; your self-esteem might not have been that great to begin with. If your guy actually admitted verbally that he does not want you sexually anymore, then essentially your ego and your confidence were both just ran over by an 18-wheeler.

You can't let yourself linger here in these states of mind. You know deep down that pitying and hating yourself won't help you accomplish or fix anything.

Pinpoint the Main Causes

Work out a timeline and piece together when exactly it was when he lost the attraction to you. Knowing when will help you figure out all the why's.

Did you gain weight? Do something to your hair hat looks hideous? Did you stop doing your girlie things like your hair and makeup routine every day?

Time for Soul-Searching: How Much do You Care? What Are You Willing to do?

You've already been subjected to soul-crushing criticisms; now, you're in an even harder situation.

You will either have to work your ass off in order to look good to him again, or face the same criticisms. Or worse, it might be one and then the other with no reprieve or satisfaction for you at any point.

Do You Want to do This For Him? Or Are You Over It?

It's time to consider how you really feel about your man. Just because a man can hurt your feelings does not necessarily mean that you're in love with him.

Usually women, by nature, desperately want to be wanted physically and thought of as sexy by the guy they are in love with. If you've let yourself go physically, that raises warning signs. You may not even carry a torch for him any longer.

If this is the case, tell the guy to get lost.

If You're Still Dying to Rock His World…

If you still love him and want to get the physical aspect of the relationship back on track, you have to be committed to your efforts and not slack off.

First, you need to determine the amount of weight you want to lose and how long it will take. The resources available to you will depend upon your schedule and income.

Get Your Motivation

Get online and go to one of your favorite sites and create a wishlist there if you don't have one already.

With your ideal size that you're soon going to be in your head, shop for fabulous outfits and a whole new wardrobe. Put everything in your wishlist for now, and print it out if you want to keep it with you to look at whenever you want.

Keep in mind that you're doing all this for YOU, not your man. Life has no guarantees, and you cannot rely 100% on anybody. You have no guarantee that your guy will be around next week, but you and your body and health will be.

It Might Have Been a Lie…

Finally, you cannot ignore the very real possibility that your man was completely full of it when he said he no longer wanted you sexually.

Why would he say this if he didn't mean it? There are a lot of reasons, and none of them are good.

Basically, all the motivations that he would have for saying this when it wasn't true boil down to two possibilities: 1. He's gay, or 2. He's messing around, and was cheating for probably the entire duration of your relationship.

If you even slightly suspect either of these, then reclaim your freedom and single status ASAP and get rid of the loser.

If you want to keep from chasing your boyfriend away be careful of what you do and how you act around him. Guys have a different way of seeing things than girls and might miss interpret something you do incorrectly which can lead to problems. The last thing you want is for him to get the wrong message about something.

Between the two of you, do not scrutinize his past life. This concerns things like old girlfriends or other personal stuff. You may not mean anything by it, your just curios, but your boyfriend can think you a prying into his past and may resent it. If he gets real comfortable with you, some of this information may come out anyway from him.

If you try to make him into something he is not, he will resent this also. He has been who he is for his who life so if you can not deal with it move on. Accept him for who he is and leave it alone, if you keep pushing an image change on him he will go away.

Do not be possessive of him and ask him where he is going and where he has been. If he is being faithful to you and you keep checking up on him, he will have enough and leave you. Also do not be overly attentive of his every need, give him his independence to take care of himself sometimes and to be able to do things for you. Treat each other with respect and you will be happier for it.

Just when you thought things are going well, maybe even perfect with the great guy you are dating, then you're caught unaware when he suddenly cuts off all forms of communication. Believe it or not, it is natural for guys to withdraw because of these reasons:

He hates the feeling of vulnerability.

When you fall for someone, you feel vulnerable because of the fear of getting hurt, or being rejected. Your heart is on the line when you realize that you are in love. Some guys hate the feeling, because he probably had a painful experience in the past that's why he'd rather bail out than take the chance with you.

He is not interested to take on responsibilities.

Being in a relationship means he would have to be ready to take on a lot of responsibilities that come along with being a boyfriend. Relationships are a lot of hard work and not to mention, very emotionally tiring and draining. He might not want these things so he withdraws when things start to get serious.

He is having a hard time letting go of his freedom.

When you are in a relationship, there would be less time for yourself and more time spent with your partner. You wouldn't also have much time to do the things you enjoyed doing when you were still single. A guy might withdraw because, at this point, he isn't ready to be committed yet.

He wants to date around, believing that he's still looking for the one.

He might withdraw from you because he wants to continue dating some more women. There are plenty out there so why would he hurriedly settle at this point?

Everyone else isn't settling, but why should he?

All his guy friends are in the dating world, so why would he settle? He is pressured with the people around him. It would be a different thing if he is surrounded by married couples, though. But if he is with all his single buddies all the time, he would withdraw from any commitments.

He found someone who's more interesting.

He won't call you again when he finds someone he likes better. It is tough but you would have to face the possibilities of such an occurrence. Do not feel bad when this happens as there is someone else out there that's truly meant for you.

He started to get bored.

He would withdraw the moment he gets bored. Maybe your conversations are shallow and the sex isn't that exciting anymore. When this happens, he would surely look for someone else who is more fun and who would willingly bring back the excitement in his life.

1. Be honest and have integrity. What that means is while you don't have to be brutally honest where it hurts someone's feelings, always try to be straight forward. For instance, if your girlfriend asks if a pair of pants makes her look fat, you don't respond that yes, they actually are disgusting on her and make you throw up a little in your mouth. What you should say is “I don't really think those are very flattering” and then offer a positive suggestion, such as adding, “But I really loved how that red skirt you wore last weekend looks on you.”

2. Learn how to compromise. Nobody is perfect. Your girlfriend isn't and you certainly aren't either so in order to have a successful relationship, both of you are going to have to make an effort to give a little bit. Learn to compromise on the things that are not crucial in your life. If you are a church going Catholic and it keep you centered and sane, don't compromise on going to church. If you really don't care for art museums, but your gal does, give a little for her. Who knows, maybe next time your non-sports going love will buy you tickets to the series playoffs. Just make sure that it is a two-way street. If you keep compromising and she refuses to, then it is time for a serious talk that may lead to parting ways. Don't stick with anyone who believes it is their way or the highway.

3. Which brings me to my second point. There are some things that couples will simply never ever agree on. For most of these issues, it is perfectly acceptable, in fact, necessary, to agree to disagree. You may be a Republican, she may be a Democrat, but unless politics are important to you (to me they aren't) then that might be an area where you agree to disagree. If your political views shape you and you are passionate about them, then this may be a sticking point that will determine your future together.

4. Do not lose track of who you are and she is as individuals. Tell her you want her to keep her own life and her own friends and that you trust her and love her for who she was when you met her, which includes the life she led before you. She should also grant you this freedom. It can make a world of difference. Often the person we fall in love with changes and makes all their interests yours, which is not the way to go (so if you have the qualities of a good pick up artist don't change that part of yourself.

5. However, do be open-minded to her world and her interests. Be interested in everything about her and you will be that much better off, personally and in your relationship. Part of that involves being a good listener and being aware of her wants and needs. Being open-minded will enrich your world in more ways than you can imagine. Being a good boyfriend really means being considerate, but also figuring out what makes relationships last and work.

If you've wanted to go out with this one guy for years and he still hasn't made any move, then don't you think it's time to take matters into your own hands being the smart and confident woman that you are? Here are some creative ways to ask this one special guy:

Ask him out by taking something that belongs to him

Don't make this a serious thing where you have to get up to him and stammer your proposal for a date. Instead, you can get something from him such as his coat, then leave a note in its place saying “If you want your coat back, better meet me at a restaurant. It's a date!”

Leave your business card in his place.

On the card, you can write something like “Would you want to go out with me?” If he wants to meet up with you, then he'll already have your contact details on hand!

Bring out that mag.

What's his favorite magazine? Why don't you let him flip through the pages of his favorite reading material and let him find a pink note asking him out on a date? Make sure that this note is also scented so you'll also entice his olfactory sense.

If you opt for the traditional method…

…then you can always ask him out by sending him an email. This should also tell your confession of having a crush on him for the longest time. When you do this method, though, just prepare yourself on whatever his reaction would be.

Do you have a girlfriend?

When you ask him this question and he says he's still available, then make sure to follow it up with “would you want one?” This is a unique and confident way of asking him out and no guy would be hard-hearted enough to refuse this.

Do you have the guts?

Then you can also go ahead and ask him in person! If you're the type who prefers doing everything in person, then be ready to meet up with him and to ask him out! Just make sure that the setting is right so that you'll be able to tell him what you want without any interruption. Don't do it in malls or the movie house!

Small talks and breaking the ice.

The idea is to make him feel comfortable first, but since you've known each other for years, then it would be easier for you to go to him and casually ask. Just don't blurt it out, though. It's all about proper timing, too.

If you're looking to find out how to get laid, it's important to have some good qualities that women want. In this article we'll cover a few of those qualities and provide you with some great advice on how you can get laid any time you want.

Firstly, you need to know that sexual attraction has nothing to do with your looks. It's a combination of lot's of things. It doesn't really matter what you look like because there is someone out there for everyone, providing you have a good personality and confidence in yourself. Women are totally turned off by men that lack confidence and have a negative personality.

If you're not happy with your weight, or something else about you, change it! Complaining about you not being able to get laid will do you no good whatsoever. I know lot's of guys who are overweight or have average looks and they get laid every week, simply because they are happy with how they look, and their personalities shine through.

So, if you're having trouble finding girls and getting laid, work on your confidence, and start looking on the brighter side of things. Go to the gym, change your appearance and improve any negative traits you have and replace them with positive traits. By doing so you'll greatly improve your chances of getting laid.

But it doesn't just stop there, you need to know how to act and what to say around women to sexually attract them. There are lot's of seduction manuals out there that provide a stack of great tips and advice on attraction techniques that will give you a head start in the dating game.

By improving yourself and gaining the know how, you should be able to go out to any bar or club and seduce a woman into bed and get laid any time you want, without fail.

Let's face it; no matter how much you think you understand women, they are a straight up mystery most of the time. One minute they want one thing and the next minute they have completely changed their mind. Yet, if you understand how to turn a woman on you will never have to worry about understanding them and getting them to do what you want.

Men and women see the world in completely different ways. Something that means absolutely nothing to you could be an insult that cuts a woman to the quick. The smallest slight can easily turn a happy woman into your biggest enemy. Conversely, the smallest gesture of romance or niceness can equate to disproportionate feelings of attractiveness and emotional bonding.

Studies have shown that women are in fact 16 times more emotional about stuff than we men are. Armed with this knowledge, you can now see how doing things based on how you perceive the world simply won't work when it comes to women. While it may seem like nonsense and silly to you, using this information to your advantage will help you learn how to really turn a woman on.

Doing small things to create an emotional response in her is very easy. Wearing her favorite cologne, sending her a quick text message or dressing up for a date (without being asked) will show her that you are thinking about her. As she becomes more confident in your feelings for her, she will be more attracted to you. You can easily play their heightened emotional states against them and reap the benefits all the way to the bedroom.

Women are especially sensitive to words. Thus, saying the right thing can make a world of difference in her opinion about you. Writing her love letters, poems or even quick little messages will also have a giant effect on her attraction to you. Use the effect of words on your woman with brutal efficiency to increase her opinion of you. Conversely, if she thinks she is too good for you or that the power is all hers, you can deliver some well timed digs on her that will shake her confidence to the core and keep her wondering about you.

While dishing out sappy words is one way to make a woman attracted to you, don't take things too far and come off insincere or phony. Women have been hit on since they began puberty, so they have great BS detectors. Be genuine but make sure to play on her emotions and you'll get a lot father than most guys.

Smells are also a big factor in attracting a woman. Make yourself smell as clean as possible while still smelling manly. Cologne, body wash and even deodorant can make a woman find you much more attractive. Don't drop the ball though by stopping with your body. Make sure your car, house, clothes and everything else she could associate with you smells great. This will leave a huge impression in her mind about you.

Women are very emotional, and while this can be infinitely frustrating, you can also use it to your advantage. If you're trying to figure out how to really turn a woman on, all you need to do is approach the situation from a logical and scientific point of view, armed with the above knowledge. Know what you're up against and you steer her in any direction you want her to go.

It can be quite a task to keep a guy interested in a relationship. But if you are willing to work in that direction then you can have your guy coming back to you no matter what. Here is what you need to do.

Don't depend on him for everything

Emotional co-dependence is a part of every relationship. But when you burden your man with each and every problem and start consulting him for all, even insipid decisions, he begins to find you tedious. So, don't reveal all to your man. Make your own decisions and consult him for the important ones.

Keep stroking his ego the right way

All men need some incentive to keep coming back to the women in their lives. And he will do so only if you make him feel good about himself. So, stroke his ego the right way and make him feel more smart, handsome and intelligent than anyone else and he will keep coming back to you.

Look great despite the time you have spent in the relationship

Relationships make us feel comfortable and that comfort transcends into complacence. Don't get complacent about the way you look and dress well for him. Make him feel that he has a sexy woman by his side who others, too, find attractive and he will keep coming back to you

Enjoy sex just as much as him – and don't be shy

Sex is considered a man's game. But be his ultimate woman by desiring sex with him as much as possible. Don't be shy when it comes to your sexcapades. When he sees that you enjoy sex as much as him, then, he will keep coming back to you.

Never dare to be clingy

No matter how deeply you feel about your man you must never act clingy with him. The minute you start behaving like an appendage he loses all interest in you. But if you give him the freedom that he wants and also focus on your own personal life he will always keep coming back to you.

Be patient of his follies

When your man realizes and sees that you are patient with his follies and are accepting of them then he keeps coming back to you

Always be the one person to stand by him

Your man will keep coming back to you when he sees that you are the one person who is going to stand by him and support him at all times. Get him to see that you are his support system and he will always come back to you.